i wanted to clarify some things about my blogs, specifically the ones about relationships. if you read my october 20th blog closely, the first things i ever learned about relatioships is that the first person to go to with problems in the relationship is the significant other, which means that i would never just spontaneously spill my guts about my relationship, especially not in such a public way. thus, since the inspiration for my blogs is not coming from my own, it must be from others. yes, my relationship blogs are in response to observing other relationships, comparing them to my own, and sharing my thoughts about relationships in general. in doing so, i hope that someone someday will benefit from my thoughts and opinions either because s/he now knows that s/he’s not the only one with such a POV or s/he now understands the POV of another standing on the opposite end of where s/he’s standing.